-:Sex Communication:-
Even couples who have been married for years often have trouble
talking about sex. If you are feeling a little less than satisfied or
just want to try something new, it's important to open up with your
partner and talk about your desires.
how to approach sexual conversation with your partner.
Timing is everything
Don't mind read
You can't be a mindreader, no matter how long you've known or been
with your partner. Don't assume you know what feels good to them, or
what gives them pleasure; always ask. For example, "Which activities do
you find the most pleasurable?"
Reminisce
A good way to start a sex conversation is to remember back to the
first several times you and your partner had sex. What did you enjoy?
What make it exciting? Bring up the good times with your partner and
talk about how exciting things were. This will lead to conversation
about what's going on in your sex life currently.
Watch a movie
Another good way to start a sex conversation is to use a movie or TV
show that you've watched where a couple discussed sexuality. Ask your
partner what they thought of the discussion? What was challenging about
the discussion? Can the two of you discuss (or do the two of you view)
sexuality differently?
Don't blame
Let your partner know how you feel by using "I" statements not "you"
statements. Say,"I feel insecure when we don't have sex frequently" or
"I miss having sex with you" rather than "You never want to have sex."
Ask your partner what you can do to make things better or to improve
your sex life.
Give him time
Remember to give your partner time to respond and think. Many of us
don't have the vocabulary to talk about sexuality in general, so your
partner may need time to process and think about what you say. Men will
have a different vocabulary than women.waiting for your comments and mails ...
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