Thursday, 18 July 2013

योनी में जलन तो करें यह उपाय ?

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सेक्‍स दातपत्‍य जीवन का एक अहम हिस्‍सा होता है। बेहतर सेक्‍स लाईफ के लिए आप बेशक कई कोशिशें करती होंगी लेकिन फिर भी कुछ परेशानियां ऐसी होतीं हैं जो कि सेक्‍स लाईफ को बुरी तरह प्रभावित करतीं हैं। उसी तरह की समस्‍याओं में से एक है महिलाओं की योनी में जलन होना। योनी में जलन होने के बहुत सारे कारण हो सकतें हैं और इस समयस्‍या के चलते ठीक-ठाक स्‍वस्‍थ महिला भी सेक्‍स लाईफ का पूरी तरह आनंद नहीं उठा पाती है। साथ ही पार्टनर को भी इस परेशानी में शामिल होना पड़ता हैं। योनी में जलन होने का एक मुख्‍य कारण योनी का शुष्कता (सूखापन) होना है। योनी के शुष्क होने के कारण महिलाओं को सेक्‍स के दौरान बहुत परेशानी होती है और वो अपने पार्टनर का पूरी तरह सहयोग नहीं कर पाती है। यही नहीं कभी-कभी वो सेक्‍स करने से भी इंकार कर देती हैं। यदि आपको ऐसी परेशानी है तो हम आपके लिए कुछ सुझाव लेकर आयें हैं जिसपर अमल कर आप इस समस्‍या से कुछ हद तक बच सकतें हैं।

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ल्‍यूब्रीकेंट या वैसलीन का प्रयोग: यह एक बेहद ही पुराना और आसान तरीका है। योनी में सूखापन के कारण योनी के भीतर की त्‍वचा आपस में रगड़ होने से जलन पैदा करती है। इस दौरान यदि आप सेक्‍स करती हैं तो यह आपके लिए और भी ज्‍यादा असहनीय हो जाता है। इसके लिए आप क्रीम या फिर जेल का प्रयोग कर सकती हैं। यह क्रीम या जेल आजकल बाजार में आसानी से उपलब्‍ध है। यदि आप तत्‍काल बाजार से इसे नहीं खरीद सकती हैं तो त्‍वरीत प्रभाव के लिए आप बॉडी लोशन का भी प्रयोग कर सकती हैं। सेक्‍स के दौरान इंटरकोर्स करने से पूर्व योनी के भीतर हल्‍के हाथों से बॉडी लोशन को लगायें और ध्‍यान रखें कि इसके पूर्व अपने हाथों को ठीक प्रकार से धुलना ना भूलें।
 सेंटेड वॉश को दरकिनार करें: जैसा कि सभी जानतें हैं कि सेक्‍स के दौरान शरीर से आने वाली बेहतर खुश्‍बू सेक्‍स के प्‍लेजर को और भी बढ़ा देती है। इसके लिए कुछ महिलायें सेंटेड वॉश यानी की योनी के आस-पास सेंट का प्रयोग करती हैं। आपको बता दें कि भले ही यह आपके शरीर में खुश्‍बू का संचार करे लेकिन कभी-कभी यह नुकसानदेह भी होता है। सेंट में एल्‍कोहल का प्रयोग किया जाता है। जो कि योनी के त्‍वचा में जलन पैदा करता है। इसके अलावा नहाने के बाद टॉवेल का प्रयोग योनी पर हल्‍के हाथों से करें। डी हाइड्रेशन से बचें: डी हाइड्रेशन का सीधा मतलब है कि आपके शरीर में पर्याप्‍त मात्रा में पानी नहीं हैं जितना की शरीर को आवयशक्‍ता है। शरीर में पर्याप्‍त मात्रा में पानी न होने के कारण पेशाब का बनना भी कम हो जाता है। जिससे योनी का खुश्‍क होना सामान्‍य सी बात है। जिसके कारण योनी में जलन होता है। तो कोशिश करें कि ज्‍यादा से ज्‍यादा मात्रा में पानी पीयें और फ्रूट जूस आदि का सेवन करें।
 चिकित्‍सक से सलाह: यदि ऐसे घरेलु नुस्‍कों के बावजूद भी आपके योनी में जलन की समस्‍या खत्‍म नहीं हो रही है तो तत्‍काल चिकित्‍सक से इस बारें में परामर्श लेवें। यह कोई बड़ी समस्‍या नहीं हैं कई बार योनी में किसी तरह संक्रमण हो जाने के कारण भी योनी में जलन की समस्‍या सामने आती है। जो कि मामूली दवाओं आदि के सेवन से खत्‍म हो सकती है

Wednesday, 17 July 2013

How To Satisfy Women In Sex

How To Satisfy Women In Sex

Need to know ow to satisfy women in sex? You want be able to satisfy a woman with just having sex with her; it’s more in avoid than that, you will leave her craving more. If you think for one moment all it takes to satisfy women in sex is banging her head against the head board for thirty minutes thinking you have really satisfied her, when all you have really did was gave her a splitting headache; you are mistaken. Where is the foreplay, the passion, the excitement? In general for a man to be satisfied all he needs is for the woman to show and he’s content, but women are more complex than that. She will need to be aroused, teased and squeezed in order for you to satisfy her.

  1. Don’t stop until she’s done. Men can be selfish at times when it comes to pleasing women. He may feel just the act of having sex is satisfying and if he’s satisfied after the sex is over then the woman is to. Perhaps when he ejaculates that marks the end of great sex, not realizing that not enough touching and stimulation was received to satisfy her. So the next time you ejaculate and it’s written all over her face she needs more to send her to orgasmic heaven, try to continue stimulating her through oral or finger gratification. It also helps to stimulate her doing and before sex.
  2. Compliment her physical attributes. Women love compliments, even if she feels likes she’s very beautiful. Sometimes a woman can be her own worst critic especially when it comes to her body and showing it when having sex. Express how stunning you think she is when you see her in the buff. This will take her focus off how she thinks she looks to you and put her focus more on enjoying sex with you and the more she gets into it the more satisfy she will become.
  3. Acknowledge women verbal commands. Don’t be afraid to ask her how you performed. Women can be very vocal especially when it comes to having great sex. If she tells you what she likes or don’t like, don’t take it as a put down or an insult, but more as constructive criticism; which will put you on the road to satisfy women in sex more often.
  4. Learn to read nonverbal communication. The woman may not use her words to express her dissatisfaction, but her body language and the expression on her face may be a dead giveaway that she is not enjoying having sex with you and she is just waiting for it to be over. Now is not the time to panic, it’s not too late to turn this around; think fast. Start caressing her breast and it’s always a good time for a passionate kiss even gentle kisses on the neck and ear can help turn this around and make this more of a satisfying experience for the woman in question.
  5. Don’t be in a rush to have sex with a woman. Its true women usually last longer during sex. A man may want to argue it’s because he is doing all the work, but whatever the case may be when you are done the woman may not. You have forgotten one important thing; to arouse and excite her before having sex. While you are in the moment of having thrilling sex, and at your climax, she might still be in the warming up phase and you are almost done. You will then realize this woman is not satisfied even though you were.
Always make sure to think of the woman first because you are going to be satisfied in sex. Kissing, caressing, teasing, oral or finger stimulation and talking dirty or some things you can do to ensure she receive sexual satisfaction.

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Tuesday, 9 July 2013

A BEGINNER'S GUIDE FOR ANAL SEX


 What are your thoughts on anal sex? Has a partner ever asked you to try it? If you’ve tried it, did you love it? Hate it? What are your biggest concerns about anal sex?

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 A BEGINNER'S GUIDE FOR ANAL SEX

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Anal sex is still very much taboo! This doesn’t change the fact that between 6-40% of people report having tried some type of anal stimulation or anal sex. The truth is that everyone has an erogenous zone in their anus—males and females. Whether you think it feels good, are curious, or your partner is asking you to try it, here are some things you should know before engaging in anal sex!
1. Relax your mind and body! If this is your first time trying anal sex, spend a few minutes relaxing your mind and your entire body. You can also relax your anal muscles. To see what that feels like you can tighten them by squeezing your butt muscles and holding for a few minutes, and then releasing.
2. Use lots of lubrication! Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubricant. The more lube you use, the more comfortable and enjoyable anal sex can be. Don’t forget to make sure you are using a water-based lubricant. Before going right to anal sex you may want to begin by using a finger to become comfortable with anal play.
3. Communicate! As with all type of sexual activity, verbal communication is a must! Talk to your partner about your fears or desires for anal sex. Continue to communicate when first trying anal sex by letting your partner know if it hurts or if you would like him to move more slowly or more quickly. It is important that you feel comfortable so don’t be afraid to communicate!
4. Women—you stay in control! Especially the first time you are trying anal penetration, it is good to be in control of your man’s penis so that you can guide it at a pace and pressure that you are comfortable with. Take your time in getting it in. This is also good because the lining of the anus is very sensitive, so pay attention to your body and stop if it is too painful. Some good beginning positions for when trying anal sex are doggie style and laying on your side with your partner behind you on his side.
5) Be safe! To minimize the risk of infection, be sure to clean your genitals before and after engaging in anal sex. In addition, do not go from the anus to the vagina as this can lead to infection or complications. Use a condom! If you are engaging in anal sex, discard that condom and put on a new one before penetrating the vagina to minimize the risk of infection.
A tip: There are many shared nerve endings between the walls of the vagina and the anus, so stimulating the vagina simultaneously can be extremely pleasurable. If you feel comfortable, insert something (perhaps a finger or a vibrator) into your vagina while you are engaging in anal play.
Don’t feel pressure to engage in anal play! And remember that if you try it and don’t like it, you don’t have to do it again. Some people don’t choose to try anal sex and some just don’t enjoy anal stimulation once they have tried it—both are OK! Everyone has different likes and dislikes. Love it or hate it, you are not alone.
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Friday, 5 July 2013

Why do older women like younger guys (Cougars)

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Cougars (women in their 40s+ dating men 7+ years their junior) or Pumas (women in their 30’s dating younger men) whatever you like to call them, whether you love or hate them, they are out there. From Halle Berry to Demi Moore they love their younglings, and we’re not talking about their children. Why these women do it? Because they can, they are at their sexual peak and who better than a younger guy to fulfill those needs? They’ve got stamina and that’s all they need. Do you like older women?


What is a cougar?The Unknown Cougar !

The short answer: A cougar is an older woman who is primarily attracted to and has sex with significantly younger men. I have to ask …”and this is wrong and unacceptable, why?” (giggle)

The long answer: The most commonly accepted definition of a cougar is a woman 40 years of age or older who exclusively pursues very young men. “Define very” (insert giggle and cougarish grin here) The onset of the cougar years is hotly debated. The ten year age difference seems to be an unspoken but accepted minimum between participants.


Why does this happen?

Is it about sex? A woman sexually peaks at 40 while a man peaks at the age of 17. I think if a woman passes the “age of matrimony”, before she finds an old partner that shares the same passion, she would venture into recreational flavoring of younger men.

Why would men ever be interested in older women? It’s simply because they are attracted to the confidence and sexual experience of older women and there are no strings called commitment attached.

Older, single women have been dubbed "cougars" for a reason: they're felines (females) who hunt younger men. As such, cougars are an interesting and unusual breed of women. They seem to want what men want: sex with no strings attached.

In that respect, they seem almost like the female counterpart of The Player: The Playerette. However, the cougar and the playerette have some key differences.

Read on to learn these differences and get some tips to help you make the most of these great creatures.

Typically, cougars prey upon men almost young enough to be their sons. Fortysomething cougars would be attracted to men in their 20’s, and fiftysomething cougars would pursue men in their 30’s and so on. Some cougars are less interested in a relationship than a sexual conquest, perhaps enjoying the fact that they are physically appealing to men who are considered to be in the prime of their virility. Again I ask …”and this is wrong and unacceptable, why?” and I’m giggling…What I didn’t know was that a cougar can be married or unmarried.Ashton Kutscher & Demi Moore

Although the term ‘cougar’ comes from the big game predatory cat of the same name, the cougar connection also may allude to the wearing of animal print clothing by older and more sexually aggressive women. How many of you just stopped to think if they have been sighted wearing animal print lately? I know I just mentally scanned my closet, phew I’m good.

In my opinion we are hearing more about older women with younger men because people in general have become more accepting and desensitized with just about everything in life. Women are financially independent and are looking for fun with no complications or expectations. Not to say that dating a younger man doesn’t come with complications.


Types of cougars

First off, we must understand that there are certain types of cougars.

Cougar Type 1- The type of cougar that hooks up with young athletic-types (think Susan Sarandon in Bull Durham). She may settle for a less physical, more suave catch, but the point is, she thinks like a man in that she's looking for the hottest-looking guy she can get -- the female equivalent of a guy meeting the Swedish bikini team.

Cougar Type 2- The confused cougar that looks for easy sex, but really seeks a relationship man. She'll tart herself up and come on strong, but right around the time things start to get intimate -- either shortly before or after you know her in the biblical sense -- she reveals herself to be a seeker.

Tread carefully and don't get caught with type No. 2.

how to spot a cougar
Appearance:

* She dresses quite suggestively, often younger than her age -- she wants desperately not to look middle-aged.
* Her clothes will generally be tight or low-cut -- anything to make a guy notice her. From afar she might look like a young hottie, which gets guys to approach. Get close, see the wrinkles and makeup, and her true age becomes apparent -- but by that time she's already being flirtatious and has lured you into her lair.
* She'll often be a smoker (cigarettes are a sexy prop, and "got a light?" is a good approach) who dies her hair (blonde is most popular) and dolls herself up (seems to be sponsored by Revlon).
* They often hang out in groups, acting as wingwomen for each other. On the other hand, given their considerable experience and resulting confidence, they will not wait for their friends to hit the bars. Logistically, it's easier for an easily picked-up woman to fly solo.

Her behavior is much more forward...

Saturday, 1 December 2012

Top 10 sex positions for mind-blowing orgasms

Sex positions

O, yes

I always thought it was a myth that there are certain sex positions that can help a woman climax faster and better. Say it isn't so? If this is true, why haven't we been schooling our men? I took my inquiry to the sex-perts and uncovered that there are, in fact, such positions. Obviously, I'm going to share them with you -- that way, we can all be having the best sex of our lives! Read on for the top 10 sex positions for achieving mind-blowing orgasms.
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The butterfly position or modified missionary

sex position: the butterfly
"With the woman on her back and her hips on the edge of the bed, the man penetrates her while standing. She then puts her legs over his shoulders and tilts her hips slightly upwards. This gives a wonderful angle for cervical stimulation with deep penetration that can produce some intense vaginal and uterine orgasms. With more shallow penetration, a man can stimulate the anterior vaginal wall to hit the G-spot."

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Modified coital alignment technique

sex position: modified coital alignment technique
"A couple starts off in missionary position. Once a man penetrates a woman deeply, he allows her to bring her legs together between his. He then shifts his weight slightly forward so that the shaft of his erection is producing firm pressure and friction on her clitoris as he moves. This works very well for women that prefer to have clitoral stimulation during penetration to reach a very powerful orgasm."

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Baring the scepter

sex position: baring the scepter
"Either partner can perform this technique, although the bottom person's hands may be more able to pull it off. Form a ring with thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis. Then, pull down so the skin on the shaft is taut. This exposes more nerve endings and increases the penis' sensitivity -- it can also help maintain his erection. Engage in intercourse with your hand still encircling the base to send his pleasure soaring."


4

The counter top

sex position: the countertop
"This is my favorite. It's when the woman is laying on her back on the counter or table while he enters standing. It's rough. There's pushing aside of papers, pepper shakers which add to the sense of urgency and inappropriateness. It's easy to maneuver and move the woman to slide along the counter. There is still contact. He goes deep and feels in control. It works all the way around. The keys are clothing, stuff in the way, and being in an open space. Still allows for connection while feeling dirty. It just works on so many levels. It's not about acrobats. It's about context."
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The seated scissors

sex position: the seated scissors
"This position allows the woman to have the control in order to determine the depth and angle of penetration, as well as how much clitoral stimulation she gets. With the man laying flat on his back and his knees bent, she straddles him with one leg to the side of his hip, and the other leg between his legs. The woman can then find just the right spot to grind against his pubic bone with him inside her. She controls the pace, the depth, and the amount of pressure and friction she receives. This is definitely a prescription for mind-blowing sex!"


Get off, stand up

sex position: standing up
"I'm no [pro], but whenever I've had sex standing up and holding my partner in the air or up against the wall, it's been mind-blowing for both of us. I suspect it taps into some of our innate gender differences: the strong man and the small woman, which in turn heightens the sexual experience. It also forces us to be in a full embrace, which furthers the emotional connection, as well as our physical one. It's physically demanding and not for all couples but for those that can, it's highly recommended."


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Uncloaking the clit

sex position: uncloaking the clit
"Given a woman's clitoris is buried under the clitoral hood and cushiony mons pubis surrounding it, it's no wonder this tiny nub rarely receives enough stimulation during intercourse to catch the O-train. Your hands, though, can help change that. Form a 'V' with your index and middle finger and point your fingers toward your feet. Press this V onto the mons pubis, with a finger to each side of the clitoris. Then, pull up, moving the skin with your hand. This should unveil the hard-to-reach clit in all its glory, exposing this little love button to a lot more action."


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Shake 'n' bake

"If you're craving a quick-but-stimulating break from intercourse, this move is the perfect titillating timeout. To do it, the man withdraws and rests the tip of his penis on the clitoris. Then, hold the base of the penis and shake it quickly from side to side so that the head hits the clitoris with every wiggle. In doing so, you'll be stimulating both heads at once -- that of the clitoris and the penis -- which should send you both into paroxysms of pleasure."

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Pushing tush

sex position: pushing tush
"If your guy enjoys having his back door explored, reach around with both hands and grab both cheeks. From there, you can do 'Butt Yoga' (a technique whereby you spread the cheeks apart, then together, one up one down then vice versa) or 'Anal Yoga' (a technique whereby you place your middle fingers to the sides of the anus then spread them apart, then diagonally, then up and down). If that gets him hankering for more, feel free to delve deeper."


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Happy scissors

sex position: happy scissors
"Heating up hot spots aren't your hands-only talents. They're also great at moving body parts where you want them, and this technique is a prime opportunity. During intercourse, raise your legs, then have your man hold an ankle in each hand. From there, you can spread her legs apart, hold them together, part them at 80 degrees, the options are endless. And since the tendons of the legs pivot deep in the pelvic cavity, moving them around will subtly alter the below-the-belt sensations for you both. Talk about getting a leg up on a little variety!"

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

6 Reasons why Women over 40 have the Best Sex Life

 

6 Reasons why Women over 40 have the Best Sex Life


Many surveys in recent years have confirmed what women over 40 already knew, but what most younger people find hard to believe: Women over 40 have the best sex life. Most women over 40 confirm that they enjoy sex more and that they are having the best sex they ever had.
There are a lot of good reasons why women over 40 have the best sex life. We rounded up the main reasons in a handy list:

Top 6 reasons why women over 40 have the best sex life

  1. Women over 40 are more confident about their own body
    Any woman who is out of her teenage years will confirm that, ironically, when women are young, slim, wrinkle- and cellulite-free, they are also insecure and worry about their own looks. The older they get, even as their looks become further removed from the “good looks” promoted by advertising, they become more comfortable in their own skin.
  2. Women over 40 are more sexually confident
    Because women over 40 are more confident in bed, too. They are not afraid to say what they like and what they don’t like.
  3. Women over 40 are experienced
    Women over 40 have had some time to find out what work and what doesn’t work – for themselves and for the men they are with.
  4. Women over 40 who are happy in long-lasting relationships
    While young women are often dissatisfied in relationships, always wondering if something better might be waiting around the next corner, women over 40 who are in long-lasting relationships are often more at ease with their partner.
  5. Women over 40 who are single find new joy in sex
    As the mid-life crisis strikes, women over 40 often re-evaluate their relationships. If they end a relationship, they tend to have very specific ideas of what they want from a man in the next relationship. That can include a new-found joy in sex.
  6. Women over 40 can finally just enjoy sex
    Women’s enjoyment of their sexuality is often overshadowed by fertility – too much of it or too little. Women in their teens and 20s have to think of contraception to prevent getting pregnant, while many women in their 30s are preoccupied with getting pregnant, being pregnant and childcare. Women over 40, however, can enjoy sex without thinking about any of those issues. Motherhood is either behind them or they have decided not to have children, so they can just enjoy sex.
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Saturday, 20 October 2012

G-Spot Jiggy Sex Position - Doggie Style Sex Position

Erotic Instructions:

Get down on all fours with your man kneeling behind you and have him plunge inside you, grabbing your rear for balance. A little firm, well-placed stroking of your G-spot can open up a whole new orgasmic world. If he’s the exploring kind, encourage him to thrust far enough inside you so that his testicles hit your body.


Why You'll Love It:
Once you have a G-spot orgasm, you’ll crave more. Also, there’s something very primal about doing the deed from behind that brings out the animal in even the most mild-mannered guy.

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